"Why do some guys pay for girls and some not?"
I asked this question, out of the blue, earlier. He looked very amused, smiled and said nothing.
The intended question was actually why some guys pay for me while others not..
Maybe it's a silly question to you. I have several answers to this question.... Generosity, to impress, carries a torch for you, gentlemanly behaviour, just want to be nice to a friend....
Yea.. But which of these is the reason behind him giving me treats leh?
ACtually.. it doesn't quite matter..
Anyway..
In love with shoes from Exodus... Lovely!!!! But impractical... bah.. girls' shoes are like that, most of the time.
I still think that I am a girl..
And I am having regrets buying that coffee bean card................. Looks nice. But it isn't quite a good bargain after all..
I might be going JB this SAturday if nothing goes wrong... I haven't been there for years cos I am scared.... Cos the last time I was there... I witnessed daylight robbery..along with what friends have witnessed and the media reported.. Even my fren living in JB is afraid of her safety there.. Ya.. Me a scaredy cat at times...
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hmm.. I dunno. because it looks bad when a guy is unwilling to pay?
Haha, normally if there was no prior agreement on how to split the bill, then I will pay if its affordable. But if its really expensive, I won't refuse if the girl insists on paying me back her share. But if the girl says nothing, I guess I also won't ask for payment lor. Face mah. :-p
*snicker*
Even some Malaysians aren't entirely comfy in JB. :P That place hasn't got the best rep in the world, alright.
As for paying for the ladies... I usually offer to pay by default. But I don't say no when they offer to cheng once in a while too. Sometimes if you get too stubborn about paying you end up insulting the person you're paying for. Both sides pay once in a while, everyone's happy! And it's still a lot more personal than going dutch. :)
I guess it's just courtesy for the guy to offer. A sort of unspoken message that you can and are willing to take care of her, I figure. But it's important for every guy has to know the difference between a girl who appreciates that and a girl who views you as a cash register. :P
guys! I forgot to mention that I always take out the cash and offer to the guys each time they pay for me.
otherwise... i will pay for something else later that day..like the coffee drink or something.. coffee bean is not cheap anymore. INFLATIOn..tsk
tempest..how come some guys dun care that they would look bad not paying.. haha.. sigh..
i want more guyfrens like u all haha
hehe... Maybe the guy friends u were with just didn't want to give the 'wrong impression'.
Normally I'd pay only for good female friends, and girls I'm interested in. If its a not-so-close female acquaintence, like colleague, I won't pay also. :-p
Don't want to create misunderstandings.
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