i want to blog.. but that person's (that person is not JJ) back.. i cannot use comp anymore...
not happy!!!!! as usual.
i don't want to expect anything or say anything.. i will just live each day as it is........
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btw, issit very common that guys do not like to meet their gfs too much. Is two times a week too much? 3 times too much?
Just wondering..
Why does my ex bfs meet me everyday? Without even me clinging onto them. Cos they like me a lot a lot. not like this guy.
when he's sick, i must be there.
when I am sick, he gets annoyed and runs away.. idiot.
posted by Satin @ 11:33 pm
3 Comments:
Heheh... this is like stepping into a minefield. If you ask me, the reason why 'ex-bfs' and friends in general seem to enjoy hanging out with one another is that the girl isn't clinging to them, as you put it. They have room to breathe, and just enjoy themselves.
Whereas when you're with your significant other, there's now two people to think about. You have to take the other person into consideration as well, etc. It's part and parcel of every relationship and us guys know that, but I think most of us enjoy some 'alone time' to kick back and relax with our friends as well.
Which sometimes is just not possible with your significant other around. But then again I've seen some couples who are like totally living one another's lives, never apart. I can't imagine living like that... can you?
It all depends on individuals, dear. Some guys need a lot of space. Some guys need their women near. Ditto for women. One can only hope that one manages to meet a partner who likes to meet one as often as one wants.
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I was writing on Wendy's blog that trust can be a vicious cycle (with the right man). The more you trust, the more he'd try to live up to that trust. If you trust that he loves you, you may find that he really does, in his own way. If he doesn't love you, he wouldn't be wasting his time with you, right? :)
I know I complain a lot on my blog / OD, so I can't really preach what I say but I believe it works! :)
Oh, and I just tagged you. Have fun! :P
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