why why why
why must a guy with a gf habitually wank to porn?
why is that acceptable?
hormones? crap.
lust? must be.
pple say : as long as not literally making out with real girls, it's actually HARMLESS??!!
harmless?
yea.. i have talked about this before. I can never accept it.
Just don't want to find out the ugly truth.
i can't adapt to the society of people I am living amongst now.
Self righteousness? trying to be holy? talking about morals?
what about feelings?
feelings of hurt, inferiority complex, insecurity..
it's beyond my control.
going to bed.. in tears..
so silly of me..
i wish it doesn't bother me.
posted by Satin @ 1:09 am
4 Comments:
Not sure why u are so bothered...your fears are religion based?
if i had a gf who finger herself so much...i would be worried.
Compulsive is a bad thing.
my fears are not religion based.
it's what i see, hear, learn from people around me. all the infidelity. it scares me. I don't want my happiness to be ruined...
if a guy shows so much interest in other girls and get so turn on by them, and the kind of girls that turn him on is so unlike whatever i am.isn't there a huge possibility that he would stray towards such girls? can he put up with temptation?
btw..eeks.. i wun finger myself.. do a lot of girls do that? i'm not all innocent and all. but just don't want to be betrayed, just like nobody would want to. but it's happening, rampantly.
Ok, maybe you should weigh this problem against other factors like how he treats you, whether he gives you enough attention whenever he's with you (and not keep his eyes on other girls) etc.
And I know of some girls who actually openly let their guys read porn because it's all down to human nature really. By giving the guys the 'freedom', it can even build up the thing called trust. Okay, this may sound outrageous, but some people work this way. Believe it or not.
Of course, I'm not encouraging you to change your thinking overnight. You should judge for yourself and see whether it's worth to change yourself to suit the environment.
i dun see the link between pron and being unfaithful to ur partner. *scratch head*
if i were to watch pron...i would still treat my gf like a princess...one and only. I think maybe u are over-reacting?
u caught him with someone else?
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