the language of love

I think the advent of indirect communication such as sms, msn, icq etc, has led to many of us becoming poor communicators in real life.

To Mr **,
What I need is your physical presence with me when I am really down. Stop those cliche smses. They were once effective for a while, but not anymore.

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I am wondering how I can show concern for my dear ones when they are unhappy.

What is your love language?
-physical touch?
-words of comfort?
-gifts?
-emails? smses?
-quality time?
-favours?

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I told a lie today. And it's affecting me quite a bit because I always try to make it a point not to lie. I am such a hypocrite today.

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Went KTV. Some songs just make me want to cry. You know the song sang by Zhou yuming (F4) and the elder of ASOS. The song is so sad...

Ermm.. I want to say that....
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.I LOVE MY VOICE

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Anyway, I realised that the singing really lifted up my mood. I was really enjoying myself, albeit on the brink of tears from time to time. Yea. I am still frightened about whatever's happening to my body.

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Perhaps, someone once set a benchmark of what love should be like, a benchmark so high that everyone else's pale in comparison... Perhaps, that was the ideal situation, but it isn't going to happen again.

Isn't it a very basic thing a bf or gf should do -- be there for each other, see each other through their joy and sorrows?