Earlier, I lao1 yu2 sheng1 with JJ, his mom, and his mom's friend.

I am just not the kind who will shout auspicious stuff and well wishes aloud during this activity. So, I nudged JJ and asked him to say for me. He said, " ***** find a job soon" So boring... hee..

Then JJ's mom was saying stuff like "I want to marry in my daughter-in-law soon." "I want grandchildren soon." JJ was nonchalant with regards to this. I am getting this feeling that he would only want to get married at a very late age and he might not actually want me as his wife after all. Ya, I am looking for a husband, not a boyfriend. He better not waste my youth...

Anyway, I have been wondering all day, when this lao1 yu2 sheng1 thing started and how it evolved and where it originated from. Was enlightened by the uncle. Sleeepy sleepy..Don't want to explain, you people might have already known though.