Full of Disdain, I admit

Yesterday, I was talking about how I view guys in school who are not as capable as the girls. Surely having lived more years than the girls, and been through more life experiences like army for instance, should give them some edge over the girls right?

But there are some guys who are really, don't mind me, CANNOT MAKE IT. These perceptions come from my obeservations in class, during project work etc.. Wonder why some guys can CONFIDENTLY make unintelligent comments, sometimes, openly in front of his 30 plus other coursemates. Wish you could see them, then u know what I mean.

I admit that I am disdainful towards such guys. But, I do respect and look up to those that are really smart and capable.

Throughout my SMU days, I realised something
Confidence is a powerful tool.
Confidence is a great concealing tool. Great for concealing your inadequacies.
Confidence is deceptive.
Confidence wins you a faithful lot of audience.
I can go on and on.. Which I shan't.

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I was talking to JJ about this. TAlking a lot about how I cannot stand some guys who cannot understand what I say, who make stupid comments confidently. Yes, they are entitled to their own opinions, which if in my opinion is not solid or simply too naive, I am entitled to have a low opinion of them too.

It was meant to be a lighthearted topic. But, hmm.. he popped a difficult question,"What if one day I am less capable than you?"I started mumbling some answers... Honestly, it wouldn't be a problem to me.

What I ask of him is for him to always love me truly, faithfully, dearly..Not to satisfy all material desires with a big fat paycheck. Ask him not to stress himself, because I know it's not easy at work. It's not easy! I know, because I will be working too. And that we should just enjoy life as it is.

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WY says that she would like to open a shop selling things of interest to her, and not like others climb the corporate ladder... :) Me too. I guess I am largely influenced by my Mama who is in the retail line too. Actually, I find that girls dream of opening shops selling stuff they like and guys think of opening up cafes.

Okiee..I am going to be discriminating again. Whenever a guy tells me that his goal is to open a cafe, I will not be taking him seriously, and frankly speaking, my disdain will start to act up again. Strangly, or not that strangely after all, those smart capable guys who have real potential never say such stuff about wanting to open up cafes.

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The last thing I want to say is that... Robert K**** CAnnot remember the spelling of his name, really changed many people's lives with his first book --Rich Dad Poor Dad. Not that everyone will follow what he says in the book, but I think he has managed to influenced the mindsets of many individuals all over the world. I respect him.

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I can feel my butt expanding, waist thickening, thighs and calves bursting...but my *ahem* cleavage still as non-existent as ever...